1. Abby quickly picked up on how special Sara's blanket is. She often tries to take it from Sara or if Sara leaves it out, Abby will pick it up. This one day Sara set it down and got busy doing something and Abby picked it right up and carried it around for a while before Sara noticed. It cracked me up. Abby has her own blanket just like Sara's, but she hardly pays attention to it. She has had a really hard time sleeping lately and I've really tried to get her to bond with something, but nothing works. I wonder if I gave her Sara's blanket that would help...
2. Abby has found another throne, the mini trampoline. She loves to climb up on it and while sitting, she'll bounce up and down. She loves it.
3. One night Abby finally decided she was ready to take some steps. Until now she would not even try to walk. We'd try to hold her hands, she'd flop or pick her feet up. She'd cruise around furniture, but ONLY when she wanted to. No amount of encouraging from us would get her to move. But then the night before Thanksgiving, she held on to my hands and walked all over the living room/kitchen. And then we pulled out the walker and she did laps all around and LOVED it. She was so proud of herself and had so much fun. She'll still only do it when she's in the mood, but finally!
4. This week Sara had her 6 month post surgery check up. I was anxious to go and get it all over with. I thought it would be her last check up, but the doctor wants to see her in another 6 months. So, we'll go again. Her ear looks really good. It's symmetrical with the other ear and neither developed quite right, so now they both look the same. I'm really amazed at how good of a job the doctor did. This has all made me so grateful for competent doctors. It has also given me a new respect for all the families that have to attend Primary Children's hospital on a regular basis. The surgery ended up being a much bigger deal than any doctor had anticipated. And even though it was a pretty major ear reconstruction, it still wasn't a heart surgery, or a tumor removal, a skull reconstruction or a sudden, unexpected injury surgery. Sitting and waiting for her to come out of surgery was the longest three hours of my life. I didn't like her being under general anesthesia. The anesthesiologist was fantastic and reassuring, but still it was nerve racking. Although it is still healing, it is healing well and the scar is already much less noticeable. I'm so glad that this will all be over for her. Pretty soon we won't even talk about it anymore and we'll never have to worry about it again.
You can see the scab above her ear still. There are some on the inside flap too. The first time she pulled her ear away from her head, I had a weird over dramatic moment of, "Oh my goodness, that's the first time she's ever pulled her ear away from her head." I know it was a bit silly, but I still had a small, super proud, moment.
We had to wait awhile so we took some fun pictures...
"Mmm, this pretzel is so good, but what's that over there? An even bigger pretzel stand?"
"These pretzels are making me thirsty!"
My brave sweet girl!
Almost done with this hospital!
5. Thanksgiving. I really missed being with family this year. Really missed it. We won't repeat it next year. That being said, we had a fabulous day. We covered the table with butcher paper and the kids had fun decorating it.
Even Abby joined in on the coloring. She loves doing what the big kids are doing.
While the turkey was cooking, we played baseball. We had a ton of fun together. The day was gorgeous and we loved our time outside! It was fun to play together. Sara has some natural talent and Kate, if she gets an ounce of confidence, it can carry her for hours, so one good hit off the tee and she was loving playing!
Sara wanted to make some placecards like we did last year. I was flattered that she remembered making these last year. It makes me feel like my efforts will be remembered! So she made some turkey place cards for her and me.
We had tons of turkey and pumpkin pie. We stuffed our bellies and then watched Rise of the Guardians. It really was a great day. Today, after we went to see Despicable Me 2 Sara said, "this has been the best off track time ever!" Awesome! Next year, hopefully, we'll have some family here, or we'll be able to travel somewhere, that's the only thing that would have made this all better!

































